There’s no easy way to say it, but the
truth is that we Indians are obsessed with success. The bigger the success, the
better it is for us brag about it, to bandy about our triumph over others. It’s
like a never-ending cycle, to go on talking about it and reliving the memory,
as if stopping to mention it would make us forget the whole experience as it
never occurred in the first place.
And just as we are obsessed about victories
as a general theme, the feeling intensifies when it comes to our sportspersons
bringing in laurels. Most of us then aren’t even concerned with their struggles
and their setbacks, they form a minor appendage to the whole success story –
unless, of course they happen to be made into movies, which we take immense pride
dissecting and taking apart – but what matters is that they keep repeating
their wins, without faltering whatsoever.
The last is a caveat we set upon them, as if
they have something to prove, time after time. It’s a caveat that’s continued
for as long as the nation’s had fandom and one that will continue into the
future, without any interruptions to break its sordidness, if remained
unchecked.
For, failure isn’t a stepping stone to
success, but is a badge of shame that’s supposed to be worn for as long as
there’s enough of a compensating success to cover it. Only to be used as a
reference point, to keep dangling lest anyone falls prey to the thrill of their
triumphs.
Right before the start of India’s World Cup
campaign Down Under, many believed the team wouldn’t even make it through to
the knock-out stages, let alone reach the semi-finals. It was only when the
team started winning that people believed that the team had it in itself to go
the distance. In the semi-finals, it all unravelled, with blame game
apportioned to most team members.
Right now, the state of Indian cricket has
been sidelined to the back-burner, with Saina Nehwal’s success gripping the
nation. But on the other end, there’s still ignorance about the Indian women’s
hockey team winning the Hockey World League, defeating Poland in the final, a
couple of weeks ago. It’s as though the only time the nation thinks of hockey
only during certain select tournaments and even then, only in terms of them as
being wash-outs instead of competitive outfits. As it won’t be long before Saina
Nehwal will be criticised too, for her decisions and choices.
Wanting a change in attitude isn’t the
question. It’s about wanting to want a change in attitude. It won’t happen overnight
and it won’t happen like a climactic scene taking place in the themed movies. It’s
a slow process needing continuity, much like we expect our sportspersons to
keep replicating their highs instead of being patient with their lows.
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